My Love Language
you are the worst kind of person.
My fabulous roommate made me take the love languages questionnaire quiz thing. My results made so much sense. SO MUCH.
I scored the highest in the category of Words of Affirmation. Basically, for those who don’t know, that means that I feel the most loved when someone says/writes something for me. And I give my love by using my words as well.
It always comes back to words with me. It’s why I let people in so easily. I take words so seriously. I mean what I say. So when someone says nice things to me, I believe them. I believe them because if I take my words seriously, surely, they does as well. Which is obviously not the case.
But now I know. I am slowly, so slowly, but surely learning how to make people earn my trust. It’s not about how they use their words, but their actions. It’s an age-old cliche “Actions speak louder than words”,but I guess for me, it’s just more relevant. Find friends and lovers who follow through with their words. Find a gentleman who knows how to speak to me as well as how to carry out what he has promised.
"And I think the first sign you notice when you begin to gain feelings towards a person, is just how easily you get jealous when they give others the attention which you crave."
"As it has been said:
Love and a cough
cannot be concealed.
Even a small cough.
Even a small love."
"He whispered he loved me, and the storm in me fell silent."